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Why am I so unlucky in meeting the right ladies, I need your advise

I don’t know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn’t do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in a while​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k…

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji (sex) sometimes, I can’t die now

I always admire my friend’s​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can’t even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there are lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one?

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn’t dull we started talking exchanged contacts, immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke  she was on my mind

Started chatting immediately ,  to cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask you out and she had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It’s really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can’t phantom out what the problem might be.

Is it that am too fine,Cos hell yeah I am ( don’t ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk?

Money isn’t my issue, but I don’t just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

Nairaland

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