Why am I so unlucky in meeting the right ladies, I need your advise
I don’t know why am always meeting materialistic ladies
Although I didn’t do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.
Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in a while hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.
But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like
I need money to make hair 3k…
I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.
Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.
I tend to yield to some because of konji (sex) sometimes, I can’t die now
I always admire my friend’s babe. She is so content. I mean I can’t even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there are lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one?
Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn’t dull we started talking exchanged contacts, immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.
Next day was a Saturday. Woke she was on my mind
Started chatting immediately , to cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.
I mean am yet to even ask you out and she had to make that request.
This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It’s really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.
I just can’t phantom out what the problem might be.
Is it that am too fine,Cos hell yeah I am ( don’t ask for my pic)
Or they money smell on me when I walk?
Money isn’t my issue, but I don’t just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.
I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
Thanks
Nairaland