Good S*x In Marriage Is Determined By Couples, Not By God Or Pastors (pic)

A man will leave his parents to join to his wife and they will become one;one in unity,in love and in behavior.

Marriage is a union between a man and a woman. In this context we are dealing with a man and a woman(married).

The essence of this article is not to go in, so deep into what is and what is not. The purpose of this article is straight forward,to ascertain whether God is involved in everything that happens in marriages specifically sex .

Religion is becoming more of how one view things from his or her perception and not totally the way God sees it even when he(GOD) is silent on some certain issues,people add up their thoughts,expressing those thoughts as Gods when in the real sense of it,is theirs.

The context of how we run our lives in marriages,the things we do,what we do,how we do it ,wholly depends on us. God is always part of our lives in so many ways and at times I believe we are not robots in his hands,so he allows us to perform some certain things on our own discretion. Yes! he is in charge of our lives but freedom is always available in some areas of our lives.

There is this freedom that one has when he does things on his own intuition without God’s interference,does not mean that God is not aware of such acts but because he gave us the free will to express ourselves the way we so desire.

Some religious leaders have coined it that God is interested in “ALL” we do,no doubt about that,but I believe his involvement has a limitation of which, a couple having a good s*x is one of the limitations and i will tell you why.

The bible from Genesis to Revelation has not in anyway taught us how to have s*x,if that truly, is important to God;the way around it,how to do it properly is not God’s duty to us.

Genesis 38:9 (KJVA) And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother’s wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.

Another translation reads….

Genesis 38:9 (CJB) However, Onan knew that the child would not count as his; so whenever he had intercourse with his brother’s wife, he spilled the semen on the ground, so as not to give his brother offspring.

What matters to God is the end product(s) of such act,it is never the actual thing or the way around it .I respect the ministers of God so well but When some stand on the pulpit to preach, they emphasises on the Godly way of sex in families without knowing that good sex is determined by couples and not God with all due respect to the Almighty God,he is not interested in that.

When you meet a man who fails to perform well during intercourse,you don’t have to ask God to teach you how to do that or ask him to convince your wife that you are trying your best,NO! You learn it. Inasmuch as some wives will not tell you openly that you need to improve but you will see dissatisfaction in her look after the act. God don’t teach you sex but you train yourself to be good sexually by applying any method in other to satisfy her so long it doesn’t have any side effect after the act.

Note:THE ESSENCE OF S*X IS FOR PLEASURE AND PRODUCTIVITY

Always know that if one cannot accumulate well enough to understand a purpose or an assignment given,you first try your best when your best is not enough,go the extra miles and when it is not enough go another extra miles until you get it.

Note: When one has a particular way or position during intercourse does not make it the “perfect sex position”.

It is easier said than done when some pastors tell us to always not imitate the world,the “wicked” methods they use in achieving satisfaction sexually but my question is,who told you it is the way of the world?instinct simply did, not God cause God will never bind together and also separate cause of not having a good time sexually with your partner.

Whichever way you feel good when with your partner during sex and he or she enjoys it and you have no problem with that, do it cause it will further strengthen the union,for what God what has joined together let no man put a barrier.

Some christians are shy to express themselves sexually to their wives during intercourse because they “feel” is wrong or view it as the way of the world when actually both of you are one body. why should one be shy to his/herself ,One should not use his failure during s*x to make it a standard way or pattern to be applied to everybody.

Note:S*x has nothing to do with Christianity or religion of any kind.

It is high time we stand to understand that good sex in marriages can heal so many hidden wounds even without us knowing it because it is part of marriage and it has come to stay.

It is high time we remove religion aside to satisfy our partner sexually because it heals broken homes. let’s embrace good sex life and don’t be shy about it cause he/she is your partner for life. Like i said earlier,you can’t be shy to yourself.